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Otoe
,
Nebr.
July 27,
1930
Mrs. H. A.
Thalimer
Huntington
Park
,
Cali
.
Dear Pearl:
Without a doubt you
will be surprised to have a letter from me but I’ve been wanting to write you
ever since Aunt Pet died. Thot
perhaps you would like to have a few details and etc.
First I will say Aunt Pet died at
the State Hospital Clarinda,
Iowa
,
the death certificate read:-
“Exhaustion from Senile Psychosis
depressed and agitated state.” She died
alone among strangers which was a thing she had often anticipated and
dreaded. We received no report from the
hospital only as we would write and ask for information and I asked to be
notified in case she was ill or wanted us but I was shocked to have a long
distant call from the hospital one stormy night at 8 oclock with the following
message, “Mrs. Pound passed away at 6:05 what shall we do with the body?” My husband, dad (Rob.), mother
(Julia) and I left early the next morning to visit
Council
Bluffs
to
get in touch with her guardian and see what we could do. It took practically the whole day to settle
affairs. You know Aunt Pet made a
will shortly after Uncle Lester died and then Ward came from
Chicago
and
forced her to sign a will giving every thing to him. She signed this later will on Sat. and she
was sent to Clarinda the following Thurs. Well! Her guardian was her old
friend and banker (Tinley) and his brother wrote the former will, but Ward imployed another lawyer so of course as soon as W. lawyer heard of her death
he wired W. and the following answer was received. “Leaving tonite, bury Mother beside
father, Sat.” (she died Tues.) Aunt Pet wanted to be buried in Keota
Iowa
beside her father, mother and Aunt Mary, had told us of her wishes
and had stated these facts in her first will. So the lawyers, guardian and me met and it was decided that she be buried
in Keota before Ward arrived and we set the date of funeral on
Thurs, he arrived and nothing suited, we were rushing, looked as if we wanted to
get her buried and etc, etc. His
idea of delay was he wanted to stay in
Council
Bluffs
longer and he was going to escort the body, “Mother had made him _
_ _ _ promises.” Neighbors said, “That
was not true as she was afraid of him, she said “if he found out she had made a
will he would kill her.”
We had an awful time, finally dad said,
“He would have to consider that her folks had something to say” so we had the
funeral that day but the body left Sat. for Keota and we persuaded dad to
go along as we had chosen the best casket, valet _ _ _ _ _ and shroud the
undertaker had and we were afraid Ward might take it on to Chicago and
dispose of it as he worked for an undertaker there.
Ward is certainly a spoiled
fellow, had been married 3 or 4 times and he was desperate and pushed for
money. Had ditched his last wife and had
a case on his accompanist. Aunt
Pet was so afraid of him I stayed with her at the time Uncle Lester died and she kept saying if Ward wouldn’t come she couldn’t sleep at
night and he just kept after her to find out. He persuaded her to go to town and went thru her papers and etc in some
way and kept a key to her box. Bout
after he left she rented a box in another bank and transferred her
papers.
Returning to her former will, she left
nine heirs. I can’t state the amounts of
each one, but I can name them Ward $500 (and that’s all) then Lauren, Jim, Robert Mickle, John Wolfe, Olive
Brown, Pearl Hatch, myself and a very good friend and neighbor Mrs. Arnold. Owing to the fact
two will s were recorded the state of
Iowa
demanded that the case come before a Jury and will come up in Sept. The lawyer that wrote the former will thinks
it will be every simple to prove she was incompetent as you remember less than a
week elapsed from the date of the last wills signature and her going to
Clarinda. We wonder in case there is
expense you as an heir be willing to help bear expenses. We know Ward has no money to fight and
the former will reads any one starting suit or trouble is to be deprived of his
share and it is to be divided among the other heirs. Aunt Pet had about $8000 on deposit in
Tinley’s bank, some bonds I can’t state amount but nearly $1000, and a bank
account in two other banks, and her property. Every thing was in her name and if you remember she received all of Aunt Mary’s money and she had money when she was married. The will reads a stated amount to be given to
each heir and the balance divided among the eight.
Her house was rented, some of her
treasures were locked in the cedar chest and the house rented
furnished.
Poor Aunt Pet was so alone the
last few years, the folks and I went to see her often and I stayed several weeks
but she felt so neglected and helpless. We wanted her relatives to take turns with us staying with her but they
refused or didn’t reply to our letter. Uncle Frank’s kids would not come. She had hoped Olive Brown would come
but she was in training for a nurse and had not completed her course. I stayed as much as I could but I have two
children 1 age 7 and the other 4 years. I could take one but could not have two with me, and as you know Aunt
Pet was not very fond of children. Momma couldn’t go because grandfather died while Aunt Pet was bad
and she had to care for grandmother.
Uncle Frank is in a bad state of
mind in fact should have been in Clarinda. One of the boys stays with him. (Merle) but he is a ro_ _ _ _ _ so I don’t wage he receives very
good care. Uncle Frank and Aunt Pet were so suspicious of every one in regard to money – every one was
stealing and trying to get their money. You can imagine how hard it was to find some one to stay with her, she
was so suspicious and accused them of such awful things and would not buy
eats. Half the time at the last Aunt
Pet would not provide eats, it got so we had to charge things. She would hide her silver ware and etc, and
then declare someone had stolen it. She
had a very nice lady staying with her. That poor lady had so much to contend with. In fact dad stayed a couple of nights with
her shortly before she went to Clarinda and he was afraid of her. But when I stayed with her when she was not
bad, she was so nice but she grew worse o quickly after Uncle Lester went, so poor in fact she could not have weighed more than 90 lbs. We visited her in Clarinda sometime she knew
us and was so pleased to see us, again so distant and cold. But I thought so much of her I wouldn’t
gladly have done anything for her. Brought her home after Uncle Lester died but she wasn’t satisfied
and was home sick.
Aunt Alice died last summer it was
a blessing as she was helpless, could not feed herself and they could not get
help to care for her. They told her
(Aunt Pet) Aunt May had gone and she realized what it meant. Aunt Pet wanted to go I was afraid she
might commit suicide she was so despondent.
I realize my letter is not one of the
most cheerful one ever written but I thot you would like to know a few details.
Will attempt to tell you a few things
about us. I have been married ten
years. Harry is married and has
two girls, the folks live on Grandmother Wolfe’s place in fact dad bought
it. Lauren has 4 children and
lost a girl 12 years old, he lives at
Denton
Nebr
works for the
Burlington
road. Jim lives at
Shanon
City
,
Iowa
,
has three young folks. Will lives
at Alamo has two children married. I
wonder if you remember all the folks that I have spoken of. George H. visits the folks
occasionally.
Well! I must close, in fact I’m getting writter’s cramps.
Would you answer soon and tell us if you
would be interested in helping to have the first will stand? If the heirs are not interested I suppose
Ward’s will stands and that was far from Aunt Pets wishes. She felt she had spent a fortune on him as it
was, but he says “she never spent a dime and her folks are trying to beat him
out of his father’s money. Please
write.
Genevieve M.
Ganzel
Otoe
Nebr.
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